flowchart TD
Start("A disagreement or
request has happened"):::startNode BoundaryStated{"Has a boundary already
been clearly stated?"}:::decisionNode OrdinaryConflict["Ordinary Conflict"]:::goodNode RepeatedAnyway{"Is the request being
repeated anyway?"}:::decisionNode BoundaryRespected["Boundary Respected"]:::goodNode GuiltThreats{"Does it include guilt,
threats, or isolation
from others?"}:::decisionNode CoercivePressure["Coercive Pressure"]:::emergNode Persistent["Persistent but Non-Coercive
Still Address Directly"]:::goodNode Start --> BoundaryStated BoundaryStated -->|No| OrdinaryConflict BoundaryStated -->|Yes| RepeatedAnyway RepeatedAnyway -->|No, respected| BoundaryRespected RepeatedAnyway -->|Yes| GuiltThreats GuiltThreats -->|Yes| CoercivePressure GuiltThreats -->|No| Persistent classDef startNode fill:#5b9bd5,stroke:#333,stroke-width:2px,color:#fff,font-size:16px classDef processNode fill:#7e57c2,stroke:#333,stroke-width:2px,color:#fff,font-size:16px classDef decisionNode fill:#ffd54f,stroke:#333,stroke-width:2px,color:#333,font-size:16px classDef emergNode fill:#e57373,stroke:#333,stroke-width:2px,color:#fff,font-size:16px classDef mildNode fill:#64b5f6,stroke:#333,stroke-width:2px,color:#fff,font-size:16px classDef goodNode fill:#66bb6a,stroke:#333,stroke-width:2px,color:#fff,font-size:16px classDef endNode fill:#b0bec5,stroke:#333,stroke-width:2px,color:#333,font-size:16px linkStyle default stroke:#999,stroke-width:2px,font-size:14px
request has happened"):::startNode BoundaryStated{"Has a boundary already
been clearly stated?"}:::decisionNode OrdinaryConflict["Ordinary Conflict"]:::goodNode RepeatedAnyway{"Is the request being
repeated anyway?"}:::decisionNode BoundaryRespected["Boundary Respected"]:::goodNode GuiltThreats{"Does it include guilt,
threats, or isolation
from others?"}:::decisionNode CoercivePressure["Coercive Pressure"]:::emergNode Persistent["Persistent but Non-Coercive
Still Address Directly"]:::goodNode Start --> BoundaryStated BoundaryStated -->|No| OrdinaryConflict BoundaryStated -->|Yes| RepeatedAnyway RepeatedAnyway -->|No, respected| BoundaryRespected RepeatedAnyway -->|Yes| GuiltThreats GuiltThreats -->|Yes| CoercivePressure GuiltThreats -->|No| Persistent classDef startNode fill:#5b9bd5,stroke:#333,stroke-width:2px,color:#fff,font-size:16px classDef processNode fill:#7e57c2,stroke:#333,stroke-width:2px,color:#fff,font-size:16px classDef decisionNode fill:#ffd54f,stroke:#333,stroke-width:2px,color:#333,font-size:16px classDef emergNode fill:#e57373,stroke:#333,stroke-width:2px,color:#fff,font-size:16px classDef mildNode fill:#64b5f6,stroke:#333,stroke-width:2px,color:#fff,font-size:16px classDef goodNode fill:#66bb6a,stroke:#333,stroke-width:2px,color:#fff,font-size:16px classDef endNode fill:#b0bec5,stroke:#333,stroke-width:2px,color:#333,font-size:16px linkStyle default stroke:#999,stroke-width:2px,font-size:14px
Conflict or Pressure? A Decision Guide
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